Guys perspective:
I ran into my ex girlfriend shopping for baby toys with my pregnant wife. I had told her, "I'm not the marrying kind." So it was very awkward, I stopped and talked to her as my wife stood there confused by the dirty look on my former girlfriend's face. I really just don't care and I do not regret telling her I was probably never going to get married, she obviously wasn't the one for me. I found a girl I wanted to be with for the rest of my life, and it just wasn't her. How could she be mad about that? We've been broken up for years, I've moved on and she has moved on. It doesn't bother me in the least bit if she is upset, things happen and people change. She has found someone, there is an engagement ring on her finger. So why she is upset is beyond me. When you know, you know. When I met the gal I married, I knew. Any ex girlfriend of mine is in the past, what matters now is important. I'm shopping for my beautiful wife and soon to be daughter. Why is she in a baby store, maybe she is pregnant? How is that any different? She seems so mad, she would barely look into my eyes as we spoke. We only exchanged a few words, a simple "Hi, how are you?" and "It's been years, what are you up to these days?" I introduced my wife, she didn't even say hi to her. I'm still not sure why she would take this out on my wife, let alone me. Crap happens, it's not the first time she is going to run into an ex boyfriend who has moved on with his life. I'm a firm believer that there is someone out there for everyone, and you will know who right away when you meet them. I just didn't see myself with her for the rest of my life, is feeling that way a crime? I wish she would not be mad, her and my wife would get along great, they are both very alike. When I met my wife, I knew I wanted to put a ring on her finger. I did not feel that way with my ex. My wife questioned me about the women, all I told her is that it was a girl from the past. She wasn't mad like I expected, she replied with, "Well that's nice that you guys got to catch up for a minute." She's perfect.
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